I've got it figured out. Evan doesn't WANT another sibling. Seriously. Dh had to work overnight yesterday and today (last night and tonight). So that means, in order to sneak in some bd (sorry Lola) we have to do it while Evan is napping, before dh goes off to work. Yesterday, Evan went to take his nap on time, but only slept for an hour, so when dh was getting up, Evan woke up. Today, Evan skipped the nap totally. Pretty sure that just threw away another month. FUCK.