If you want to be seriously disgusted, read this. http://www.misanthropic-bitch.com/byebyebaby.html
I really fucking hate people. I claim to not want ANY person to go through the pain of losing a baby, but you know, that's not really true. There are people that deserve it, if nothing else, just for a day.
posted by Julie @ 7:56 PM
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what an idiot. thanks for the link, you're right. completely disgusting. hope that person gets what's coming to them. yes, i'm spiteful. grrrr.
this person is very bitter. she has been hurt deeply and is unable to deal with it; anger is her defense from feeling pain. thankfully, she is an exception; most people are a great deal more evolved.
i do understand that pictures of dead loved ones are creepy to many people; they were waaaaaaay creepy to me before i lost hans. and the whole angel thing, the our-loss-heaven's-gain concept - well, i've had enough of it. but it's what gets those people through the day, and it's not hurting anyone. and it's a thousand times better than just becoming bitter and hateful.
When I think about it, I guess that seeing pics of dead babies is VERY odd if nothing else who hasn't experienced a stillbirth. But does this idiot think we would show dead baby pics if we had a CHOICE??? I know they obviously don't get it, and there is no way they can without going through it, which I guess is why I do wish they could live this life........if only for a day.
That, and the fact that I am pretty damn bitter myself at times........
Your blog rocks!!!
Just leave it alone. I actually used to read her blog a little bit a few years ago. There was this blogger (really...before there were a lot of blogs) called "The Chicks Suck Guy" who basically talked all the time about how...well...chicks suck. It was funny, but he was racist, which was creepy. He used to link to her on his site.
If you respond you'll just be getting into a flame war with her, and it's not worth it. Obviously, she hasn't been there. But I agree that it makes me wish she did lose a child. She would lose that little smirky attitude in a second.
Take away the anger and the bitterness, and there are quite a few points in that entry that I have explored myself.
How do I mourn someone who really had no personality of yet? Am I mourning Alex or my idea of who Alex might have become? How do I go on with my life when it doesn't fall into place the way I had planned?
I do wonder why it is so important to this person that grief remain private. Why would my discussing my grief have anything to do with a stranger on the internet who has no interest? Like the library, where there are plenty of books written by completely talentless hacks, the internet overflows with people like me who try their hands at writing...mostly uninspired ramblings about life's drudgery. Don't like it, don't read it, is my motto.
This woman craps on about self-absorbed...I cannot believe how self absorbed SHE is to think she has the right to say some of that stuff. And what we feel isn't logical. And if grief should remain private then she shouldn't be reading about it.
And if it is ok to wish her the loss of a child for a day then you are better than me, for I certainly wouldn't wish that child back into existence to be raised by someone like her.
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